Thursday, December 17, 2020

#51- Winter Letters from an Esther Hicks to Margaret Tilton re Isaac Hicks of Long Island, NY

 WINTER LETTERS

I love winter letters. They are the best. Especially when you have genealogy involved.
Isaac Hicks' home, father of Mariana Hicks Westbury LI NY

Book Esther refers to

Letter 1 from Esther Hicks (daughter of Henry Hicks) Emory to Margaret B Tilton (Walmer) on  cards picturing the Old Friends Meeting House in Westbury,  NY

 January 6 1995

Dear Mardy,

Thanks so much for your letter I am still in Westbury but expect to return to Foulkeways in about ten days.

 Did any of your family ever see the book “Isaac Hicks, Quaker Merchant”? He married Sarah Doughty, and their son John D married Sarah Rushmore, our common ancestor (on the Phipps property).

Isaac prospered in NY but retired in 1805 “with enough of the world’s goods” and built the house on Old Westbury Rd. which we knew as a Cocks home thru a daughter’s marriage.

It was sold for very little during the Depression and all Isaac’s 10,000 business records unopened for 130 years or more were brought to “the aunts’ parlor” [Grace & Marietta].

A history professor seeking a subject for a Harvard dissertation learned about them, was permitted access and researched a good publication. We all got to know him-Robert Davison-of nearby Hofstra University.

Isaac, who must be identified as Isaac I (he died in 1820 I think) had worldwide shipping interests. The first vessel flying an American flag to enter the Black Sea was his ship “Thames.” Another vessel was the “Sally.”

Papers for it were signed by George Washington and that document was found by Aunt Marietta in the treasure trove of papers. Well, she kept it and included in the “red books’ as we call them. Don’t tell anyone! – she shouldn’t have done it.

Last line: the 2  aunts who preserved; and were naughty!?

I wish I had known that your mother [Elizabeth Tyson] visited Old Westbury Gardens with a group. 
Perhaps  I could have arranged to join her for at least a short time.

Glad she was pleasantly received.  We are impressed with the friendly outreach of the place. - do not think of the Phipps family just as “rich folks.” Many volunteers contribute in all sorts ways.

I expect you have recovered from holiday activities. We had a fine time, ten people for several days with my daughter hosting a Dec 26 lunch, ourselves and Edwin’s descendants in town then.

The IH [Isaac Hicks] book is out of print—might be interesting to seek in book sale or otherwise.

Please tell me where and how Margaret [Tyson/Bouchelle] is.

Happy New Year, Love Esther [Hicks] Emory

Letter 2 Regarding Isaac Hicks (II) & Westbury


March 18, 1995
Dear Mardy

Thanks you so much for your letter and the books containing all the Meeting records you assembled. What an undertaking carefully completed!
    The Phipps family did live briefly in the house John Doughty Hicks built in 1825. They soon moved it south of the turnpike near the house I now have to empty.
It burned in 1910 so that is the end of that. There have been eight Hicks homes in direct descent, ending with Fred who know runs the Hicks Nursery business (started in 1853) and others as well, all of which I can remember and four others (only two gone) and all within about a mile.
    Our main highway is the Jericho Turnpike (Route 25). The area now the incorporated village of Old Westbury is on the north side of it. The rich sporting people bought it all up from the Quaker farmers starting about 1900. Now no business is allowed even tho’ the nursery still has twenty acres. Fred could sell only what might be grown on it, but he concentrates on a smaller garden center to the south.

     You asked what became of the 1837 house built by our ancestor Isaac Hicks II who changed from dairy farming to the nursery business in 1853.
I was born there, but my parents built one the south side in 1905. We came to call it the aunts’ house (for Grace and Marietta). It descended to my brother Edwin but neither he nor his son wanted to live there. It was bought by the Society for the Preservation of Long Island Antiquities. They renovated it and put it up for sale under their revolving fund, with restrictions. The first owner could rarely be there. That is the girlhood home of your great-great grandmother Marianna [Hicks M. Hauxhurst].

    When the big house built by the first Isaac Hicks in 1805 had to be sold at the bottom of the Depression years, all the business records Isaac brought from NY City came to the aunts’ [previously mentioned Grace and Marietta] house for safe-keeping. There were 10,000 letters, a dozen letter books, ledgers and journals.  

They all went later to the New York Historical Society, Port of N.Y Authority collection. I actually went there because I thought someone from my generation should see them. A few of the ledgers were brought out for me.

Isaac the merchant’s money was passed on: a record exists that his grandson John D Hicks (a posthumous child b. 1829) decided he would do better investing the money -$10,000-left to him by his grandmother Sarah Doughty Hicks than what he tried to make farming with his brothers
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front piece of above book 

    Our ancestor, the second Isaac [Hicks] must have inherited the same and he also received the 20 acres where he built in 1837 and carried on a dairy farm before expanding into the nursery. He later bought the property on the south side of the turnpike and I believe it extended all the way to the railroad.
             Will write more in Westbury.

Farewell,
Esther [Hicks/Emory]

Letter 3  frm Esther J Hicks [Emory] b. 1902 to Margaret  Tilton [Walmer] 2 Apr 1995

Westbury, NY
Apri 2, 1995

Dear Mardy,  
    I am enclosing various papers, copies of originals, with your own books. High praise for all your work on them and thanks for letting me see them.
    Occurring south of Westbury is the largest natural prairie east of the Mississippi—twenty miles long and about sixteen wide. Hence the early names Plainedge and Woodedge. In the early days if was used as a common summer pasture and cattle and sheep (with earmarks) were returned to their owners in the fall. No trees grew there.
The aviation industry grew up there (also Lindbergh’s take-off and return) to be succeeded by shopping malls and suburban growth.
I can even remember, though, that it was open land in my childhood. We drove to Hempstead on rutted wagon tracks as the straightest direct way there.

Here is an enclosure of Westbury’s early history written by Harold Hawxhurst, brother of your grandmother Bertha [Hawxhurst who married Chester Tyson].
As I understand it, the house all the family lived in was moved a little north and turned the opposite direction perhaps just before 1900.

The four pages with pictures of many old homes was prepared from records I supplied (as well as the first article, which I wrote).
I had waited until now to send it to you—the map had been prepared for Aunt Marietta [Hicks] by Cousin Harold.
Turn  [it] so Jericho Turnpike goes east and west. I’m sorry this is such a poor print. Anyway, you will see where Marianna Hicks (Hauxhurst) grew up, daughter of Isaac Hicks II.

The “Old Fashioned Christmas” [see above] is a copy of a greeting sent out by our nursery [Hicks Nursery, 100 Jericho Tpke, Westbury, NY]  some years ago. It shows the house where Marianna, Gilbert and Edward Hicks, much smaller then.
I remember, from age 7, when the second story of the middle front section was raised to allow a big front bedroom and indoor plumbing at the back.  
The next [?] extension was only one story when built in 1837, roof raised next about 1866, back wing 1874 (big kitchen) Up to 1906, nursery office was in the back parlor. My gr gr grandfather Isaac Hicks II had converted a dairy farm to the beginning of the nursery in 1858.
I was born there—my parents were married in 1900 and built the house across the road, which I’m now supposed to empty, in 1995.

Your story of the supposedly destroyed piano is this –  Emma Jarvis came to teach in Westbury about 1860. (She boarded with the Hicks family) and married son Edward Hicks in 1866 and brought her melodeon [forerunner of the pump organ] from her Cooperstown, NY home.
I believe it was “Preacher Rachel” [b. Seaman, married Abraham Hicks, son of Stephen & Mary] Hicks who when calling, was about to lay her bonnet on it, said, “Isaac, I advise thee to chop it for kindling.”
It remained there till the time the house was bought by the Long Island Preservation Society.
We always called it “the aunts’ house” – Grace and Marietta [Hicks] were quite dominant in the business and in the family. 

Great preservers of old records which I am  not trying to get to the right places!
A last enclosure – a copy of a letter written by a young mother whose husband felt duty called him to accompany elderly Elias Hicks on his preaching missions.
He wrote a little later, “I feel clear to build us a new house next year.” (c. 1825)
That is the one on the site of the Phipps mansion.
That John D. [Hicks, of Isaac Hicks I] died in 1829, leaving Isaac II, Lydia, Robert, Samuel, Stephen and (posthumous) John D [she named most of his children] Sarah [R. Rushmore, his wife] brought up six children alone and lived to 103!

If you want further explanation and stories that may be rattling around in my head, better ask me soon! How long will I live? Doctors have been interested when I relate that I had to go back to 1730 before I could find a maternal ancestor who had not lived to between 90 and 100—and that doesn’t count Sarah at 103 on the Hicks side. (Many of those mothers were over forty –as was I.)
I have rambled on too long with this poor pen and poor writing. How I wish I had taken a business course somewhere along the line. Even so, I could never master modern computers as you are doing—all hail to you!


[Note: Esther Hicks Emory lived part of the year at Foulkeways, a Quaker retirement community at Gwynedd  PA.  She died in 2004 at 102; the recipient of the letter Mardy, was b. 1930 and died 1998.]

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Where'd I get all this?

1 Copy of the Hicks Home (Isaac--> John D--> Isaac -who built it ) from MB Tilton Walmer Collection. Mine is digital & colorized.

2 Advertising card of "Hicks Nursery" - Many of them. This was mine. AC Johnson, collection 

3 Letters between Esther Hicks Emory and Margaret B Tilton Walmer; MBW Collection Mine are digitized copies

4 Book: Isaac Hicks by Davison. My own copy.




 

 

 



Thursday, December 3, 2020

#50 - Genealogical Blooper: I Made Rachel Griest A Sister, not a Cousin!


OOPS!

My Ooops! moment comes about once a week--or more if I'm in touch with relatives who give me feedback.  Recently I even re-wrote my grandfather's career when my uncle gave me a detailed account.

Another OOPS! moment was pointed out to me by relatives: I mentioned that a gr-gr grandfather married a Maria Griest and his brother Isaac married her sister Rachel. Not True!

I was partly right: Isaac did marry a woman named Rachel. And the woman was related, but more distantly than I  had thought. But in genealogy, partly right isn't good enough.

Looking back I realized I made assumptions based on the identical last name. I know, what could go wrong?

Let me back up. 
There were two brothers: Charles J Tyson (my gr-gr grandfather) and Isaac G Tyson. They moved from Phila to Gettysburg and went into business together.
Their sisters:
1 Rachel Griffith Tyson (1836–1874)
2 Ruth Anna Tyson (1840–1913)
3 Rebecca Webster Tyson (1842–1923)

All three of the daughters married. Rachel and Rebecca lived in Philadelphia. Ruth Anna did too but there is evidence she spent time in Adams County: she died there in Biglerville, PA. She was buried in Philadelphia.

A WIFE FOR CHARLES

Early in his time in Gettysburg Charles wrote a letter home to his sister Ruth Anna. He had just met the Griest family and the bevy of females in the house: Jane, Ann, Maria and Elizabeth. 
He positively gushed over Maria.

The patriarch was Cyrus Griest.  He was born 23 May 1809 in Warrington Twp, PA and died 23 Nov 1869 in Guernsey, Adams Co, PA
Cyrus was married to Mary Ann Cook (1806-1884)
Cyrus Griest & Mary Ann Cook's children:
1 Hiram Griest (1826–1919)
2 George McMillan Griest (1828–1853)
3 Jane Cook Griest (1830–1899)
4 Ann McMillan Griest (1832–1900)
5 Cyrus Samuel Griest (1835–1918)
6 Jesse Warner Griest (1837–1885)
7 Maria Edith Griest (1840–1927)
8 Elizabeth Mary Griest (1843–1924)
9 Amos Willing Griest (1848–1930)

(#7 above) Maria Edith Griest, as I said, encountered these two newcomers to Gettysburg (Tyson Bros Photography). Her family lived outside of town, to the north.

BROTHERS WRITE TO A SISTER ABOUT THE GRIEST GIRLS:

After his first visit with the Griest family, Charles wrote a letter home to his sister Ruth. 
He left a little space for his elder brother. 
Here is a small portion of it from the copy (too long). You will see Isaac's short contribution after Charles signs off at the end.

Gettysburg

2nd Mo. 20th, 1860

My very dear Sister Ruthie,

As Brother [Isaac Tyson] wrote to thee last, I will claim the privilege this time.

I have so much to tell thee I scarcely know where to commence, however, Brother intends to write also so that what I miss he may think of.(several pages later):

I expect thee has said before this “Well I declare I believe my little Brother is in Love.”

No, no Sis, not yet but to speak candidly I think few more visits up there would teach me how it feels to be in that predicament, as these is supposed to have some experience in that line of business.  Probably thee could give me some idea of the first symptoms, but if thee thinks I am wrong in regard to thy superior knowledge of such matters, thee must apply to Sis Rachie.

I think she could enlighten us both upon the subject without a doubt.

Well Ruthie I must soon come to a stop—this is the fifteenth page and it finds me “about played out” to use an inferior phrase.

I was pleased to learn thee had a prospect of soon teaching again. How are you getting along in the knitting business?         

I cannot tell when I will get to Philadelphia though I would like to in a few weeks. However, we must wait patiently till the time comes.

            Hoping to hear from you thee, I remain thy affectionate

            Brother Charles

            My love to all the family.

Dear Sis Ruthie,

            I have had the pleasure of hearing the content of the above voluminous letter and take the opportunity of giving my full sanction to all expression of pleasure wherein given. Charlie seems to think me old enough to take care of myself.  I came to this same conclusion and pitched in with all hands generally and Lizzie in particular, occasionally with Maria but found there was no show there when Charlie was about.

Affectionately,

Bro. Isaac 

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Maria and Charles wed in 1863, right before the battle of Gettysburg (which is where their new home and their business was).

ANOTHER GRIEST GAL MARRIES A TYSON:
So Isaac had moved to Gettysburg to help his brother put into operation a photography business called "Tyson Bros Photographic Studio." But would he, too, find love? 
I'm happy to say that he did.

Isaac's wife was a local woman, a first cousin and neighbor of Charles' wife, Maria. Their father's were brothers, so her last name was also Griest

Isaac married Rachel Ann Griest  in 1863 as well. Rachel's mother was Margaret Garretson and her father was Amos Griest (brother of Maria's father). 
Rachel Ann Griest, Maria's cousin abt 1865

Rachel Ann Griest was born on 7 Oct 1836 Menallen Twnp, Adams, PA and died 22 Jun 1907.
The couple married in 1863 (according to the US Fed Census).

By 1869, the couple, Isaac and Rachel (Griest) Tyson had moved to Philadelphia.  Meanwhile his brother was in and out of the photography business with Tipton (that's another story).  Both Charles and Isaac found out there was more money to be made in photography than just taking people's portraits: they had been trained on the battlefield at Gettysburg.



I know this through the certificate of removal that Isaac and Rachel moved their membership in the Warrington-Menallen Meeting to Byberry Friends' Meeting (rocf-see below:)

Proof Isaac and Rachel’s Removal to Philadelphia (Byberry Mtg) in 1869


2 rocf - received on certificate from- A certificate of membership was received from another monthly meeting. Byberry MM - Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) (abingtonquarter.org)

Why did he move? Perhaps because his parents and sisters lived in Philadelphia.  

But mostly, the city was a good deal larger than Gettysburg. Isaac continued his photography business in Philadelphia. 


He even persuaded his brother Charles (who had originally been his teacher) to sit for him. 
Charles J Tyson

Isaac made photographs of nearly everything.

Isaac and Rachel Ann Griest had children:
`Margaret Tyson (1864–1866)
`Charles Barclay Tyson (1865–1914)
`Chester Tyson (1867–?)
`Marian B Tyson (1870–?)
`Clara Tyson (1874–1930)

Children of Charles Barclay Tyson and Marion Baker (and grandchildren of Isaac and Rachel Ann):
`Eleanor R Tyson
`Clarence Burtis Tyson
`Anna Gertrude Tyson
`Charles M Tyson
*thanks to a reader for noting an error in this post and helping me right it!*

Sources:

1 - Letter, copy, collection of MB Walmer, digital copy

A Friendly Glossary :: Friends Historical Library :: Swarthmore College

3 Rachel Griest (Tyson) in MB Walmer Collection; my digital Collection

4 Photo of Cabinet Card from book.

5 Photo of Charles J Tyson; my own collection ACHiggins-Johnson

6 Other information is a combination of 1)  MB Walmer's Collection (original copies, digitized) and 2) records from Ancestry.com

Sunday, November 15, 2020

#49 - When New York Spoke Dutch - 9th great grandfather: Wolfert Gerritse Van Couwenhoven

When New York's Language Was Dutch

Dutch-American Heritage Day is this week, November 16. The Netherlands was one of the first nations to recognize the fledging American colonies as its own nation. Also, the Dutch sold Manhattan Island to the English for a song. Thank you...(I'll agree, the Lenapes got a raw deal).

Americans, at least the ones in New York, haven’t forgotten everything about the Dutch.

We sit on stoops (stoep). We will be spending our dollars (daalder) and will soon be waiting for Santa Claus (Sinterklaas)-and not Father Christmas as the English call him- to eat the cookies (koekje) we left for him. 

We are Yankees the world over, try to be the boss. And love those words like: booze, spook, coleslaw, quack, skate, landscape, cruise, frolic, pump, rucksack, roster, waffle, wagon, onslaught. Yep, all are words came from early Dutch settlers.

You know the team the New York Knicks?  When I first moved to Albany, NY the morning newspaper in town was The Knickerbocker News.  A knickerbocker is a descendant of the original Dutch settlers in New York. When I look in a mirror, I see a knickerbocker. 

"The Knick"  https://www.timesunion.com/photogallery/slideshow/From-the-archives-Capital-Region-marks-Pearl-187598.php

So I celebrate my New Netherlands Dutch ancestors who are more numerous than I thought. 

Let's start with a notable one I came upon when tracing the Tilton family of New Jersey. A woman named Conover married a Tilton, which took me back to Old New Amsterdam. I'll start with her gr-gr-gr grandfather and work my way back.

Wolfert Gerritse Van Couwenhoven

Wolfert Gerritse Van Couwenhoven [sometimes "Wolfert" is omitted] was an original patentee, a director of bouweries (farms), and a founder of the New Netherland colony (or New York).

Wolfert was born on 1 May 1579 in Amersfoort, Netherlands, one of three sons of Gerrit Suype Van Kouwenhoven and his wife, Styne Sara Roberts.

Career - Dutch West India Company

Wolfert ran a baking and clothes bleaching business, when in 1625 he was assigned as one of the first settlers to cultivate farms in the New Netherlands colony by the Dutch West India Company. (He was 46 in 1625, the Mayflower landed in 1620).

Director of Bouweries for Kiliaen van Rensselaer

In 1630, he returned to the Netherlands, where he entered into a contract with Kiliaen Van Rensselaer to return to the colony to manage his farms.  (He was 51).

Wolphert arrived in the colony aboard the ship "Eendracht", where he proceeded in his duties as director for van Rensselaer's farms in Rensselaerwyck and Fort Orange. [Near my house: today’s Renssealaer and Albany, respectively. Quite far up the Hudson River from New York City]

His contract was to run through 1636, but Gerretse requested it cancelled early so he could pursue his own interests. Rensselaer agreed. In 1632, Gerretse was released from his contractual obligations. (He was 53).

New Amersfoort

Shortly thereafter, he leased a bouwerie (farm) in New Amsterdam and managed it until 1636, when he was granted a patent of several hundred acres on Long Island. (He was 57).

He called his plantation "Achervelt"; later it served as the founding of the town of New Amersfoort, named after Gerritse's original home.

Today the area is known as Flatlands (which is in Brooklyn). His plantation was located near the current intersection of King's Highway and Flatbush Avenue.

Farm description

A 1638 inventory for the farm named Achtervelt, owned by Wolfert Gerritse and Andries Hudde in what is now Flatlands, Brooklyn, describes the estate:

"...one house surrounded by long, round palisades; the house is 26 feet long, 22 feet wide, 40 feet high with the roof, covered above and all around with boards..."

Hudde and Gerritse also had a 40 by 18-foot barn.

I found out a decade or more ago his deed of the granted land in Long Island was sold to a private collector for $156,000 becoming “one of the oldest Dutch documents in private hands.” The deed dated June 6, 1636 and was written in Dutch. It outlines the purchase of the land (3,600-acre) from the Lenape Indians.

Public service

In 1637, he became a Freeholder in Midwout, and again in 1641.

In 1653, he was sent by the colony to the States-General in the Netherlands as a Commissioner.

In 1654, Wolphert served as a Schepen (a kind of councillor) of New Amsterdam, and in 1657 was made a Burgher. (He was 78).

He served on the citizens council of Eight Men.

Marriage and children

A member of the Dutch Reformed Church, on 17 January 1605, he married Neeltje Jacobsdochter at the church in Amersfoort, Netherlands.

They had three sons:

1 *Gerret (1610–1648), a Representative at the Council of Eight in 1643 (my ancestor)

2 Jacob (1612–1670), assistant to Gov. Woulter Van Twiller, Representative at the Board of Nine in 1647, 1649–1650, sat on the Court of Arbitrators between 1649–1650, Delegate of New Netherlands to the Hague in Holland

Pieter (1614–1699), one of the first magistrates of New Netherlands, member of the Schepens Court 1653–1654,1658–1659, 1661 and 1663, delegate from New Amsterdam to the Convention of 1653, Lieutenant in the Esopus War, signer of the peace treaty 1664 with the Esopus Indians

Descendants/Spelling:

Later variations on surname: Some descendants of Wolfert anglicized the surname "Van Kouwenhoven" to "Kouwenhoven," Eventually they descended to full Anglicization as they became:  "Kownover,"  and "Conover.

Death Gerretse died in 1662 at 83 (sometime between 2 March 1662 and 24 June 1662). Likely buried Flatlands Dutch Reformed Church Cemetery.

Note: The progenitor of the Vanderbilt family named Jan Aertszoon (1620–1705) (AKA Jan Aertson) a Dutch farmer from the village of De Bilt in Utrecht, Netherlands, emigrated to the Dutch colony of New Netherland as an indentured servant to the Van Kouwenhoven family in 1650. (And, we are co-incidentally descended from that family also)

 From their son Gerrit Woflert Van Couvenhoven to my family:

Son Gerrit Wolfertsen Van Couwenhoven  Abt 1610- abt 1648

His son: Willem Gerretse Van Couwenhoven 1636-1728

His son: Garret Van Couvenhoven  1716 – 1797

His son: Daniel Garretse Conover  1749 – 1823 (died New Jersey)

His son: Daniel D Conover of New Jersey 1800 – 1841 M. M Vanderveer

Their daughter Sarah Jane Conover (1831) married William Henry Tilton 1820 -1899

Their son: Henry Addison Tilton (b. in Brooklyn, died in Chicago)

Their son: William Henry Tilton (b. in Brooklyn, died in Butler, PA)

Their son: Charles B Tilton (b. in Butler, PA, died in VA)

His children included my Mother

As a nice bonus, today Wolphert Gerritse Van Couwenhoven's place is included in Dutch place names in NY:

Some Dutch place names in New York

Battery Island (a batterij or battery of cannons was once stationed here)
Beekman Street (after Willem Beekman)
Bleecker Street (the Bleecker family)
Bowery Lane (garden, Bouwerijlaan)
Bronx (Jonas Bronck)
Bridge street (after Brugstraat)
Broadway (after Breede Wegh which means broad road)
Brooklyn (after Breukelen)
Bushwick (in Brooklyn, after Boswijk)
Boerum Hill (in Brooklyn, after the Boerum family)
Coney Island ("Konijneneiland" means Rabbit Island
Dutch Kills (Queens) Names ending in kill are of Dutch origin in Beaverkill,Poestenkill, etc, and mean a creek or river
Dyker Heights (in Brooklyn)
Flushing (Queens, was Vlissingen)
Gansevoort Street (after Peter Gansevoort)
Gerritsen Beach (in Brooklyn, after Wolphert Gerritse)
Harlem (after Haarlem)
Hells Gate (called Helle Gadt, referring to dangerous currents in the East River)
Hempstead (after Heemstede)
Holland Tunnel, Holland Avenue
Long Island ("Lange Eylandt" named by Adriaen Block, 1614)
Nassau Street (in Manhattan)
New Dorp (in Staten Island, dorp means village)
Rhode Island (after Roodt eylandt which means Red Island)
Spuyten Duyvil Creek (after Spuitende Duivel or Spitting Devil, referring to dangerous currents)
Staten Island (after Staten Generaal in the Netherlands)
Stuyvesant Street (after Peter Stuyvesant)
Todt Hill (Staten Island, after Dodenheuvel which means hill of the dead)
Wall Street (after the city wall around Nieuw-Amsterdam)
Wyckoff Street (Brooklyn, after Pieter Claesen Wyckoff)
Yonkers (after Jonker, Jonkheer and jonge Heer)

Sources:
FamilySearch: November 2020
2  Lincoln C. Cocheu, "The Van Kouwenhoven-Conover Family", 
New York Genealogical and Biographical Record Vol.70-71,81-83 (1939-40, 1950-52): 70:235. (accessed: WorldCat)
3 Internet Archive: Colonial Dutch Families
4  Holland Society of New York; New York, New York; Freehold and Middletown, Part 1, Book 61A ; Source Information: Ancestry.com. U.S., Dutch Reformed Church Records in Selected States, 1639-1989 Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2014. with Original data: Dutch Reformed Church Records from New York and New Jersey. Holland Society of New York, New York, New York.
5  https://firstsettlers.genealogyvillage.com/EarlyNewJerseyHistories.html
6 ~ Screenshot of "Knickerbocker News" from:  https://www.timesunion.com/photogallery/slideshow/From-the-archives-Capital-Region-marks-Pearl-187598.php

Other Resources:

Thursday, November 5, 2020

#48 - Westbury, Long Island, NY 1869: Beard or No Beard?

 1869 Beards at the Apex

1869 Westbury Friends Meetinghouse

It was the way to wear your hair in the US: between 1850 and 1901 all of my male ancestors who were young men during the Civil War (AND who were American & whose photo I have) wore beards.
The photo above is a1896 photo of some of the Westbury Friends at the Westbury (Long Island, NY) Meetinghouse.
I first saw in at the Westbury Historical Society.  [You might want to see if you have an ancestor pictured here]. 
Then I noticed it in my cousin's house--she lives in the same house our great grandmother (Bertha Hauxhurst) lived (in PA) after she was married. Bertha's father is in the above photo, as are many of Bertha's relatives.

In the 1990s an elderly relative on Long Island (Esther Hicks) provided an enormous amount of information, including the key to the photograph. 
Both the key and the names to each circled number is provided below.

Back to Beards:
When I looked closely at the photo, I saw fewer than half the men have beards, some seem to have whiskers, and there might even be a mustache in this group. 
I would guess though the Quakers here have in part adopted the fashion of the day (some have 'trendy' stove pipe hats), that they seemed to resist the beard largely. I wonder if it may have been because they were conscientious objectors to war (even if they agreed with the Union)?
I don't know. But, it was fun to examine more closely each face in the photo as I could see some of their expressions


Key to Westbury Friends Meeting Members - See Names below
Westbury Quaker Meeting 1869  
Note: # 33 and #39 are unnamed, not recognized. There is a 35 & a 35A to compensate a numbering error.

1 Wm E Hauxhurst - No beard -  (my gr gr grandfather)

2 Wm Hewlett - No
3 Wm Mudge - Whiskers or Beard
4 Isaac Rushmore -No
5 Benjamin Hicks (Manhasset) - No
6 Stephen Rushmore - No
7 Charles F Titus - No
8 Wm T. Cock - No
9 John S. Hicks - Whiskers or Beard
10 James Titus - No
11 Joseph Post - No
12 Lewis Valentine -No
13 Edmond Seaman -No
14 Edward Willets - No 
15 Henry Titus - No
16 Stephen R. Hicks - No 
17 Howard Rushmore - No
18 Hannah Keese
19 Lydia Townsend
20 Henry T. Willets - Beard or whiskers
21 Samuel Keese - No
22 John Keese - No
23 Anna Valentine
24 Edward Rushmore -No 
25 Hannah B. Titus
26 Daughter of Benj. Hicks
27 Daughter of Benj. Hicks
28 Mary W. Seaman
29 Mary Jane Willits
30 Thomas Hicks - No
31 Jacob Hicks - No 
32 William Henry Willits - No
33 --N/A
34 James Post -No
35 John Valentine - No
35A Sidney Pratt -No
36 Benjamin Hicks (Roslyn) - No
37 Mary P. Titus
38 Sarah A. Willets
39 ---
40 Mary F. Titus
41 Phebe Post
42 Amy Keese
43 Esther or Hannah Willets
44 Caroline H. Hicks
45 Charity Hawxhurst
46 John D Hicks - No
47 Jane Titus
48 Annie C. Titus
49 Phebe Barnes (Purchase)
50 Hannah B. Cock
51 Hannah U. Hicks
52 Rachel Post
53 Marietta Willets
54 Joseph Hicks - Yes, nice beard!
55 Elmina Post
56 Mary W. Post
57 Annie T. Willets
58 
Frederick E. Willits - No Beard but does he have a mustache??
 
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Sources
Photo: MB Walmer Collection (by way of Bertha Hauxhurst) - photo
Key: from Esther Hicks (Emory) B 1903 D. 2004 (age 101). Daughter of Henry Hicks & Caroline Jackson. Wife of John M  G Emory. Esther Hicks Emory corresponded with Margaret Tilton Walmer and provided the "key" which she had gotten from a sister. 

Wednesday, October 14, 2020

#47- How Charles Tyson Made His Family Proud - A Recollection from His Son

How Charles Tyson Made His Parents Proud

Edwin Comly Tyson and Susannah Griffith, Charles' parents, would have been proud of Charles. As a young man he struck out, and learned a trade, settled in a new town, found a gal, had a family and became fairly prosperous. 

The point of family history is not to state the facts, but to fill in the "who's, why's and how's" answering questions such as, Why did he do this? Who helped him? How did he make his decision, or find his way? But unless we have recorded information, we can only guess or deduce some of those, and much of it we will never know.

I was lucky enough to find a letter from his son (my gr grandfather's brother) Edwin “Ned” Tyson (b. 1864). Ned was a genealogist and meticulous in his attention to detail. Apparently Ned wrote a letter in response to a letter from Albert Cook Meyers, a distant relative of his. Meyers had a question regarding Ned's father. Ned outlines for Meyers when, how and why his father came from Philadelphia to Gettysburg, PA.

The story was set in motion when my great-great grandfather Charles Julian Tyson decided to move: He headed out of Philadelphia in the 1859
Below is my transcription of Ned Tyson's letter to Albert Cook Meyers. Just a note: the photo is of Ned Tyson, Charles' eldest son, because Ned preserved so much family history. Though an uncle, he deserves some kind of honor in this space)
Edwin (Ned) Comly Tyson - Preservationist

Albert Cook Meyers
Moylan, Pennsylvania
January 29, 1940

Dear Albert:

Thy very interesting communication of the 26th finds me temporarily in bed as being the best place in the doctor's belief for me to complete recuperation from the effects of the Farm Show and I have had the Dictaphone moved down to facilitate my taking care of various business correspondence. The clipping for the 1860 Census taken by Aaron Sheely is interesting.

In 1859 Father [Charles J Tyson] left his home in Philadelphia where living conditions were none too rosy to strike out for himself. As he was born in 1838 he was then just under 21 years of age. Just why he started in this direction [towards Gettysburg] I don't completely recall, but he finally landed in York [PA] and called on a photographer at that place asking for a job.

The photographer had plenty of help, but suggested that there should be a good opening for a photographer at Gettysburg and recommended that Father proceed there and look over the situation which he did.

Upon investigation he decided that Gettysburg should be a good starting point, a situation which was concurred in by Judge Wills and several other prominent Gettysburg people whom he consulted. 
He found that Judge Wills had a building adjoining and in fact attached to his residence which, with certain alterations, would be suitable for a photographic gallery and upon consultation with carpenters it was determined that the necessary changes could be made for $200.00, and Judge Wills agreed to stake him for the room rent for a year and the carpenter for the carpenter work when Father divulged to them that he just had $10.00 to his name.
It was arranged that the carpenter make alterations at once which they estimated would take about two weeks.

And in the meantime Father returned to York and arranged to work for his board with the photographer previously consulted for the purpose of learning the business, he having no previous workable knowledge of it.

I think it was the following First-day [Sunday] after he had returned to Gettysburg and started a business that he learned of a settlement of Friends [Quakers] up this way [Menallen and Warrington Meetings], and hired a team and drove out to Meeting and was invited home to dinner by Cyrus Griest which proved to be a momentous trip and the start of a friendship which resulted in his marrying Cyrus Griest’s daughter in April 1863.


His business flourished and the report thee sends indicates that by June 1860 he had secured the assistance of his brother, Isaac Tyson, establishing the firm of Tyson Bros. and continuing for several years until Uncle Isaac returned to Philadelphia to open a gallery for himself in that city which he continued the balance of his life, he having in the meantime married a first cousin of Mother’s [Maria E Griest], Rachel Griest.

Father and Mother [Charles J Tyson & Maria Griest] lived on what was then the lower end of Chambersburg Street at the time of the battle [Gettysburg] between the homes of William Boyer who was then a grocery man with a store, which later became Eckerts store, and Annie Hannaway and only a few doors east of John Burner’s home.


They were warned to leave their home on the first of July and left before noon getting as far as Littlestown (south east) where they remained till the morning of the 4th [Jul 4 1863].

-- Ned Tyson



Source:
MB Walmer Collection