I just
found a will that my great grandmother wrote the year she died.
The will
is short and reflects how much (or how little she possessed). Floras' life was
circumscribed by difficulties and some personal tragedies. She lived through
World War 1, the Great Depression and World War 2. Her own father had served in
the Civil War. Her mother died when she was young. I am not sure where she was
schooled still I'm sure her father was sure she had it. Like many people of the
era she lived nearly her entire life with extended family. This post is a time
line of her life events-connecting them to those people I believe she was
closest to. After all, what affects our loved ones, affects us,
I believe
it relevant information when writing a personal history.
Birth - 22 June 1867 in Meadville, PA to
Isabell (Bella) Sarah Brinker (d of Sarah Anna Graham and Col. Jacob Brinker of Butler
PA) and Peter Sanford Bancroft (1830- 1916) disabled Civil War vet, professor,
and editor, born in Colebrook, CT.
Age 7- 1874-Death of her mother Isabell
Brinker (born in 1846, three children)
Age 13- 1880- Residence - Butler, Butler,
PA Her widower father moved the family
to the
small city of Butler. Living in town meant she and her brothers were now close
to her mother's family and their children (her cousins on the Brinker side).
I imagine
she would have spent much time with the girls in the Brinker family.
With
her Butler cousins
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1892 |
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1894 |
On Oct 16
in 1895 Flora married William Henry Tilton (son of Louisa August Copes and
Henry A Tilton.)
Flora
filed for her marriage license giving her first name as "Flo."
He was 22
years old and she was 28 years old when they wed.
William
Tilton was born in Brooklyn, NY. His family moved to Butler for a job. His
parents moved from Butler to Detroit, then to California.
Tiltons: Earlier that month, William's
sister, Isabella C Tilton, wed Charles Roe in Butler on Oct 2. Flora and
Isbella were friends: Flora's son, my grandfather, was named after Bella's
husband Charles. And, Aunt Bella gave her nephew Charles Tilton her engagement
ring upon her passing.
Her husband’s
brother Clarence A Tilton had married and was divorced, living in Michigan. He
subsequently married a divorcee writer Bertha Francis Parker (no children).
Bancroft
Siblings: Flora's
brothers Earl and Grove were wed already married and living in Butler.
In 1899
her brother Grove Graham Bancroft died at age 30, leaving wife Etta (Bowman)
and young daughter Irene Bancroft.
She was 32
when she had her first child Henry Addison Tilton, Butler, PA in 1900. The same
year her brother's infant son, Sanford Bancroft died ( son of Earl Bancroft
& Clara Ryan) died.
Then, a
death: Flora and William's infant son Henry died in 1901. She was 33.
In 1902
her 2nd son (and only child who grew to adulthood, my grandfather) Charles
Bancroft Tilton was born at 130 E Cunningham St, Butler, PA. She was 35 that
year.
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1904 |
In 1906
(she was 39) her brother's son 2-year-old Alfred Bancroft (son of Earl Bancroft
& Clara Ryan's son) died.
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About 1907
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In 1910
she was 43 and lived with her husband, son and father in Butler, PA.
1916 was a
bad year: Her father Peter S Bancroft died on 17 May 1916 at her home on 318
West Cunningham St, Butler, PA.
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Father, PS Bancroft; and son Charles Tilton (at 2)
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Less than
a month later and a week before 48th birthday, her husband William H Tilton
died on June 15, 1916. His obituary ran on Jun 16, 1916. The death certificate
states the cause of death as throat cancer (with other cancers).
My
grandfather was 14 years old the year she was made a widow.
Her 50s-60s
She remarried a "Pat" (Alexander) Moore who promised to care for her financially. That didn't work out; as soon as her son Charles was out of college in 1926, he found the couple a small hut on the farm he was managing, they were in desperate straits.
Pat Moore died in 1935, by which time the couple was living with Charles, his wife and their children in Philadelphia. Flora continued to live with the family till the end of her life.
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Pat Moore and Flora abt 1931
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Flora, and granddaughters Ann and Margaret 1940s
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The Great
Depression had forced my grandfather to take up jobs which were wholly
unsuitable for him. He never made much money-enough to keep body and soul
together. His wife did what she could to contribute. At the start of World War
2 began, her son found out he could become a commissioned officer, so he signed
up. In the war
he was with Air Force intelligence. When the war was over, he returned
unscathed.
During the
war, the family had moved out of Philadelphia to Elizabeth's family's hometown
in northern Adams County, PA The eldest grandchildren went off to college and
the 'baby' was still at home. When Charles returned from the war, he and
Elizabeth set up a nursery business that was limping along.
In
February of 1949, Flora was not yet 82. She made out her will in her own hand.
I don't know why but since she died later that year, perhaps the doctor gave
her some bad news? She turned 82 that June. The month following on July 6, 1949,
she died in Gettysburg, PA. My grandfather was 47 years old. (The following
year my mother got married to my father). She is buried at the Menallen Friends
Meeting.
Her
Will (son & wife & grandchildren, l don't know who Helen is)
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Flora Bancroft Tilton Moore's Will
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Transcription: February
1949
My will or
wish is that the little I have of worldly goods viz- the silver in chest & china
Since they came from Charles grandparents on his father's side. I wish Charles
& his wife Elizabeth to have them so long as they both or one of them live.
Charles may leave them as he wishes--only that Elizabeth has use of them for
life. Then Billy--should have it(?) Flora
Bancroft Tilton Moore
I wish Ann
to have 3 gold bowl tablespoons & the silver ladle Margaret to have 3 gold
bowl tablespoons & the salad spoon Helen to have the little silver nut
spoon. Flora Bancroft Tilton Moore